What do I bring to the funeral home when making arrangements?

You will need to bring several things with you to the funeral home for the initial arrangement conference, assuming you have them available: the deceased person’s Social Security number, military service history summary form, any deed for a cemetery plot or other such paperwork, any notes or special requests made by the deceased, and insurance policies. You may also wish to bring along family members or a close friend whose judgment you can trust, and who can support you while you are making arrangements. Finally, bring an open mind. Many people do not have much experience in arranging funerals. They may think they know exactly how funerals work based on one or two experiences in another place many years ago. These days the options for funeral services are much greater, and your original ideas may be only the starting point for a ceremony that can be the most fitting tribute for your loved one. Also remember, if you do know exactly what you want and the funeral home you first chose is not able to help you, keep an open mind about finding a funeral home that will help.