Monthly Archives: February 2010

What is a “Traditional” funeral?

Traditional Funeral usually includes a viewing or visitation, a formal funeral service, use of a hearse to transport the body, and burial, entombment or cremation. It is generally the most expensive funeral. In addition to the funeral home’s basic services … Continue reading

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What is a direct burial?

The body is buried shortly after death, usually in a simple casket. No viewing or visitation is involved, so no embalming is necessary. A memorial service may be held at the graveside or later. Direct burial usually costs less than … Continue reading

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What role does the funeral director fill?

Funeral directors are there to help. They are listeners and counselors, tribute planners and crisis managers. Through discussions with you, based on information you share about your wishes and details about your loved one, they are able to offer guidance … Continue reading

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When a friend or acquaintance dies, when is the right time to visit?

Upon learning of a death, intimate friends of the family should visit the home to offer sympathy and ask if they can help. Some people prefer to visit the family at the funeral home. This setting may be more comfortable … Continue reading

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What can I do to help later?

In the days and months to come, the family will continue to need your support. Try to write or call on a regular basis. Continue to include them in your social plans. They will let you know when they are … Continue reading

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I found out about the death after the funeral. What can I do to express my support?

A floral arrangement or a Sympathy gift can be a warm reminder that friends are still there for those grieving. A personal note or card is also an appropriate way to express your thoughts.

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Does the government pay for cremation?

No. However, the Social Security Administration will pay for a portion of the funeral expenses. A lump sum is paid to the spouse or dependent children of the deceased. If a veteran’s death is service-connected, then the government will pay … Continue reading

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whats the best way to notify family and friends of a death

Notifying family and friends of a loved one’s death can be a daunting task. Close family members and friends should be notified in a personal manner such as a telephone call. Don’t be afraid to reach asko the first few … Continue reading

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how do you tell children about a death?

Children should be told of a death in the family. State it as simply as possible. Give brief explanations and honest answers to your child’s questions. Don’t hide death from children by telling them lies to make the subject easier. … Continue reading

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My husband just passed away funeral arrangements were made in advance but what else should I be doing to secure my future?

You have just suffered an emotionally devastating loss and the last thing you want to deal with is money and legal matters, but they must be handles quickly, so try to do the best you can. Many of items listed … Continue reading

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How do I find the best Funeral Home for my needs?

This is a highly personal decision, so only you can decide which is the best Funeral Home for your needs. We suggest beginning by contacting Funeral Directors in your area and visiting the Funeral Homes. Tour the facilities, speak with … Continue reading

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I have already made arrangements and funded my funeral in advance what if i move or want to use another funeral home?

By making arrangements in advance, you were able to express your own wishes and relieve this emotional burden from your family. By funding your funeral in advance, you also relieved the financial burden from your family. Usually, these arrangements can … Continue reading

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What education is required to become a Funeral Director?

Every state has its own regulations regarding licensure for Funeral Directors, so it is advisable to look into your state’s individual requirements and/or the state in which you would like to work in the profession. Most require college, such as … Continue reading

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I would like my pet buried, how do I go about this?

Your first step would be to contact your Funeral Director. Laws vary from state to state (some do not allow pets to be interred in human cemeteries, some do and some have no laws regarding it at all) and locally. … Continue reading

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What will I need certified copies of the death certificate for?

There are many instances where a certified death certificate is going to be required. These include: financial Information; checking, savings, trust or money market accounts; annuities; Certificates of Deposit; IRAs; mortgage/personal loans; mutual funds; pension funds; and stocks and bonds. … Continue reading

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For how long is it normal to grieve after losing a loved one?

Allow yourself the time that you need to grieve the loss of a loved one. The grieving process is different for everyone; it may take you longer or shorter to grieve your loss than it would someone else. Do not … Continue reading

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What should I do immediately after the funeral?

Immediately after the funeral, the family sometimes invites the attendees to join them for food or a reception at their home or designated place. This gives everyone a chance to talk and provides some time to relax and refresh. Sometimes … Continue reading

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Why is planning a funeral in advance beneficial?

Planning ahead will relieve family members of the stress of making some of the decisions. It also allows you to choose your funeral preference, and pay in advance if desired. It allows you to choose the specific items you want … Continue reading

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Can you be an organ donor and still have a traditional funeral with viewing?

Yes. Regardless of an organ removal, the techniques used by embalmers ensure that the deceased’s appearance will not be compromised. When an organ is removed, the body is stitched up afterward in the same way a live person is stitched … Continue reading

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What is custodial care?

Custodial care is a fee the funeral home may charge for the time that the body is being held and no other services are being provided. This fee must be disclosed and identified as a daily, weekly or one-time fee.

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Can you tell me about the five stages of grief?

The “Five Stages of Grief” refer to the psychological model originally developed by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. It describes the normal grieving stages people go through when coping with a loss. Some people go through all five, some do not, though everyone … Continue reading

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How can I make an online memory of a loved one?

You can create a Web site in memory of your loved one who has passed. Place photos on it. Share your personal story, any poetry you have written, or anything that touches you. You can also allow it to be … Continue reading

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How do you move from spouse to widow?

Losing a loved one – whether through unexpected or anticipated circumstances – is always traumatic. This is especially true with the death of a spouse. It is one of life’s most profound losses. The transition from spouse to widowed is … Continue reading

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Can you tell me a little about the funeral burial options for pets?

Pet funerals and burials are becoming an increasingly-popular option as pets have found a secure place in our homes as a member of the family. For some of us, our pets are much more than just “pets” – they are … Continue reading

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If you are going to be cremated do you need to purchase a casket for viewing?

Nowadays, caskets are available for rental, just to fulfill that need. Speak with your Funeral Director about your preference to rent, rather than buy, a casket for the viewing and they will be able to show you the options available … Continue reading

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