What do I say when writing condolences?

Writing an appropriate condolence to someone – whether in a card or guest book – can be challenging for those who find it difficult to put their emotions into words. The best idea is to keep it simple and heartfelt or write about a special memory of the deceased. Often, family find fond memories of the deceased especially comforting. A simple sentiment such as “so-and-so will be greatly missed or His/her smile lit up a room” is appropriate. Or “our thoughts are with you at this time” can help express support to the family of the deceased.