Your first decision is where you would like to hold the Memorial Service. Many Funeral Homes offer their facilities for Memorial Services, so you may want to contact your local Funeral Director. Many beautiful Memorial Services have been held at a favorite restaurant, or park, of the deceased.
Once you decide on a location, pick a date. If it will be an outdoor event think about weather conditions likely that time of year, and what will be comfortable for your invitees, as well. A special date – an anniversary, for instance – can also be a good choice when considering when to hold the event.
Next, decide on the “feel” of the Memorial Service. Will it be somber? Celebratory? A dressy dinner or an informal luncheon? Be sure that your invitation conveys what the “mood” will be so that guests can dress accordingly.
Think about the music you would like to have (if any) and if you would like individuals to read religious passages or share stories of the deceased. Contact anyone you would like to have intimately involved in the planning or activities and discuss what you would like to do.
Another thing to consider is coordinating donations in honor of the deceased to his or her favorite organization – a popular alternative to flowers at funerals and very popular with guests at Memorial Services as well. You may also want to plant a tree, or give guests wildflower seeds to sprinkle in a special place in remembrance.
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